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July 3rd, 2008 by Robert Filipczak

The college high life: hot tub, valet and concierge

July 3, 2008

For many colleges, much about how students function away from the classroom hasn’t changed much: the same blond dorm-room furniture, a communal shower and a bike rack downstairs.

Then there’s the high life at High Point University.

The Chronicle of Higher Education is reporting in its latest edition that the private liberal arts college in North Carolina offers its students valet parking, a concierge desk, free treats from a roaming ice cream truck and a hot tub in the middle of the campus.

The Chronicle, the nation’s leading publication for college and university faculty members and administrators, says the engine behind all the amenities is High Point’s president, Nido R. Qubein, a motivational speaker and businessman. Qubein is chairman of the board of the Great Harvest Bread Co., and he’s written books such as “How to Get Anything You Want” and “Close Like a Pro: Selling Strategies for Success.”

Qubein started WOW! a program that seeks to find ways to pamper students.

The Chronicle said live music is a fixture in the cafeteria, ranging from a guitar duo to a jazz quartet. Oh, and don’t forget the numerous flat-screen TVs to gaze at while relaxing over a hot meal.

The concierge desk near the cafeteria desk, the Chronicle reports, handles maintenance requests, gives restaurant recommendations and sends out dry cleaning. Students can also arrange automated wake-up calls.

And just to make everyone feel important, the Chronicle says each undergraduate’s birthday is celebrated with a card from the university, signed by the president, with a Starbucks gift card inside. And balloons. When the birthday boys and girls arrive at the cafeteria, their ID cards electronically alert the kitchen staff. The staff then fixes a slice of cake, and the featured musicians sing “Happy Birthday.”

On the drawing board, the Chronicle reports: “The Multiplex,” a movie theater, a sports bar, and a steakhouse.

“When the students know you care, they reward you by doing well in the classroom,” Qubein told the Chronicle. “Then they reward you by telling their friends and by their parents’ becoming your donors.”

Boomsday

June 27th, 2008 by Robert Filipczak

Saw this new book today from the author of Thank You for Smoking. He interviews himself here:

 http://www.twelvebooks.com/books/boomsday.asp?page=behind

 Apparently the book takes a page from Swift, and modestly proposes that the Boomers voluntarily off themselves at age 70 in exchange for tax breaks and other benefits. Logan’s Run indeed.

Kidsickness

June 26th, 2008 by Robert Filipczak

Saw this on a newsgroup that caters to reporters looking for sources for a story. In case you were wondering about the strength of the links between Millennials and their parents:

 ”Hey there, parents. This one’s for you. My editor tells me more
and more parents are experiencing “Kidsickness” which is the
opposite of kids at camp feeling homesick, it’s parents pining for
their kids off at camp. Is this happening to you? Meantime,
psychologists: is this phenom true or an urban myth about
over-involved parents? Muddah, faddah — tell all for a NY Sun
story!”

AP on 4T

June 22nd, 2008 by David Bernstein

Here’s an unsigned AP analysis that touches on a lot of 4T themes. There’s not much of substance here, but perhaps it reflects a bit of the current zeitgeist.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25311529/

Is everything spinning out of control?

Can-do, bootstrap approach embedded in American psyche is under assault

The Associated Press

updated 7:34 a.m. ET, Sun., June. 22, 2008

WASHINGTON - Is everything spinning out of control? Midwestern levees are bursting. Polar bears are adrift. Gas prices are skyrocketing. Home values are abysmal. Air fares, college tuition and health care border on unaffordable. Wars without end rage in Iraq, Afghanistan and against terrorism.

Horatio Alger, twist in your grave.

The can-do, bootstrap approach embedded in the American psyche is under assault. Eroding it is a dour powerlessness that is chipping away at the country’s sturdy conviction that destiny can be commanded with sheer courage and perseverance.

The sense of helplessness is even reflected in this year’s presidential election. Each contender offers a sense of order — and hope. Republican John McCain promises an experienced hand in a frightening time. Democrat Barack Obama promises bright and shiny change, and his large crowds believe his exhortation, “Yes, we can.”

Onslaught of dispiriting things
Even so, a battered public seems discouraged by the onslaught of dispiriting things. An Associated Press-Ipsos poll says a barrel-scraping 17 percent of people surveyed believe the country is moving in the right direction. That is the lowest reading since the survey began in 2003.

An ABC News-Washington Post survey put that figure at 14 percent, tying the low in more than three decades of taking soundings on the national mood.

“It is pretty scary,” said Charles Truxal, 64, a retired corporate manager in Rochester, Minn. “People are thinking things are going to get better, and they haven’t been. And then you go hide in your basement because tornadoes are coming through. If you think about things, you have very little power to make it change.”

Recent natural disasters around the world dwarf anything afflicting the U.S. Consider that more than 69,000 people died in the China earthquake, and that 78,000 were killed and 56,000 missing from the Myanmar cyclone.

Americans need do no more than check the weather, look in their wallets or turn on the news for their daily reality check on a world gone haywire.

Floods engulf Midwestern river towns. Is it global warming, the gradual degradation of a planet’s weather that man seems powerless to stop or just a freakish late-spring deluge?

It hardly matters to those in the path. Just ask the people of New Orleans who survived Hurricane Katrina. They are living in a city where, 1,000 days after the storm, entire neighborhoods remain abandoned, a national embarrassment that evokes disbelief from visitors.

Food is becoming scarcer and more expensive on a worldwide scale, due to increased consumption in growing countries such as China and India and rising fuel costs. That can-do solution to energy needs — turning corn into fuel — is sapping fields of plenty once devoted to crops that people need to eat. Shortages have sparked riots. In the U.S., rice prices tripled and some stores rationed the staple.

Residents of the nation’s capital and its suburbs repeatedly lose power for extended periods as mere thunderstorms rumble through. In California, leaders warn people to use less water in the unrelenting drought.

Want to get away from it all? The weak U.S. dollar makes travel abroad forbiddingly expensive. To add insult to injury, some airlines now charge to check luggage.

Want to escape on the couch? A writers’ strike halted favorite TV shows for half a season. The newspaper on the table may soon be a relic of the Internet age. Just as video stores are falling by the wayside as people get their movies online or in the mail.

But there’s always sports, right?
But there’s always sports, right? The moorings seem to be coming loose here, too.

Baseball stars Barry Bonds and Roger Clemens stand accused of enhancing their heroics with drugs. Basketball referees are suspected of cheating.

Stay tuned for less than pristine tales from the drug-addled Tour de France and who knows what from the Summer Olympics.

It’s not the first time Americans have felt a loss of control.

Alger, the dime-novel author whose heroes overcame adversity to gain riches and fame, played to similar anxieties when the U.S. was becoming an industrial society in the late 1800s.

American University historian Allan J. Lichtman notes that the U.S. has endured comparable periods and worse, including the economic stagflation (stagnant growth combined with inflation) and Iran hostage crisis of 1980; the dawn of the Cold War, the Korean War and the hysterical hunts for domestic Communists in the late 1940s and early 1950s; and the Depression of the 1930s.

“All those periods were followed by much more optimistic periods in which the American people had their confidence restored,” he said. “Of course, that doesn’t mean it will happen again.”

Each period also was followed by a change in the party controlling the White House.

This period has seen intense interest in the presidential primaries, especially the Democrats’ five-month duel between Obama and Hillary Rodham Clinton. Records were shattered by voters showing up at polling places, yearning for a voice in who will next guide the country as it confronts the uncontrollable.

Never mind that their views of their current leaders are near rock bottom, reflecting a frustration with Washington’s inability to solve anything. President Bush barely gets the approval of three in 10 people, and it’s even worse for the Democratic-led Congress.

Why the vulnerability? After all, this is the 21st century, not a more primitive past when little in life was assured. Surely people know how to fix problems now.

Maybe. And maybe this is what the 21st century will be about — a great unraveling of some things long taken for granted.

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25311529/

Super prom-moms

May 19th, 2008 by Reena Nadler

Yet another helicopter parent trend, this time in Canada.  There are some interesting generational quotes from the prom-obsessed Boomer parents.

Big night or fright night?

Prom has grown in complexity - and cost - with grads often trying to outdo each other or planning marathon events. But hold on: Isn’t this supposed to be fun?

SUSAN SEMENAK
The Gazette

Samia Liamani spent weeks searching for a prom dress, including a stop at the Betsey Johnson shop. Her mother, Charifa Mansoura, was there to help with the potentially stress-inducing exercise.
CREDIT: JOHN MAHONEY, THE GAZETTE
Samia Liamani spent weeks searching for a prom dress, including a stop at the Betsey Johnson shop. Her mother, Charifa Mansoura, was there to help with the potentially stress-inducing exercise.

The pleated dress with plunging neckline was striking, but it just wasn’t her. A red and white tulle frock with giant polka dots was fun - but did it reflect the fashion sense of a 15-year-old girl who prefers ankle boots to stilettos?

For weeks now, Samia Liamani has been in and out of boutiques in her hunt for the perfect prom dress. She’s scoured fashion magazines and sashayed before the dressing room mirror dozens and dozens of times. But with seven weeks left until the St. Thomas High School prom, the dress remains elusive.

Anyone who’s ever gone to prom, avoided prom or lived with a teenager primping for prom knows what a big deal this can be.

Those looking back often remember the event with disappointment, lukewarm nostalgia or even downright dread. But in the buildup, prom is everything. For many girls, it’s a dizzying round of dress fittings, tanning sessions, waxing treatments, hairdresser appointments. For the boys, there’s a suit to buy or a rental tux to be fitted. A limo to rent. A date to find.

The prom has grown in complexity - and cost. Indeed, it’s not just prom night anymore. The formal gala is now almost eclipsed by a whole weekend or more of pre- and post-prom festivities, from cocktail parties the evening and afternoon before to an all-night downtown club marathon and hotel stay, followed by a breakfast party or brunch - even camping excursions or weekends in the Laurentians or the Eastern Townships for some.

The average North American student spends $638 on the prom, according to a survey by Your Prom, an American magazine. That fuels a $4-billion-a-year industry, according to the Condé Nast Bridal Group, which publishes Your Prom.

Within a few weeks, flotillas of Montreal teenagers in corsage-pinned tuxedos and chiffon gowns will alight from chauffeur-driven limousines and double-decker buses and descend upon hotel ballrooms.

They have hyped it as the night of their lives; a rite of passage, their portal into adulthood. A red-carpet moment to shine, or maybe just to fit in or to dare to be different.

“Some people blow prom way out of proportion. They think it’s going to be this epic event and they turn it into a competition. Promzilla. That’s what some girls become,” said Lauren Pugh, who was out shopping with Liamani.

Pugh’s still recovering from a major row with another friend over limousine rentals.”I don’t want to sound sorry for myself, but they left me out,” Pugh lamented. “I’ve lost someone I thought was my best friend because of a silly event like prom.”

Mirella Passa, who attends Heritage Regional High School on the South Shore, has managed to take things in stride so far. “I want to have fun, but not get drunk like everybody’s talking about. When my sister graduated, there was a party after the prom and people got so drunk that a fight started and someone called the cops,” Passa, 17, recounted. “Everybody was underage, so they all had to run away.

“What fun was that?”

On the bus the other day, she heard a girl in her grade announce she was planning to lose her virginity on prom night. (She got the idea from a movie.)

“For some people who have never been noticed, or who have been rejected, it’s their one last chance to be noticed,” said Passa.

It’s not just the kids, either. Many parents hop right on the prom bandwagon, hosting cocktail parties, organizing after-prom field trips.

One father drove all the way to New York City with his daughter so she could buy her gown in Soho to reduce the risk that another girl would appear in the same dress. At Loyola High School, a committee of parents has been working non-stop for weeks transforming the gym into a ballroom with an exotic theme that changes every year.

Joanne Samoszewski and Margie Testa may just be the ultimate prom moms.

Their daughters, Laura D’Alessandro and Olivia Faulconbridge, are best friends. After the girls’ prom at the Omni Hotel on June 27, the moms will be waiting outside in a luxury coach, waiting to escort the girls and 45 other St. Thomas High School graduates to Mont Tremblant, where they have booked condos for two nights, at a cost of $40 per night per student.

Their daughters drew up the guest list. The mothers have agreed to cook breakfast and make themselves noticed only in case of emergency. Everybody signed contracts agreeing that Samoszewski and Testa wouldn’t be responsible for injury, damages or “any issues pertaining to drinking.”

The idea was hatched when Samoszewski’s daughter asked to go camping with a big unchaperoned group after prom. The alternative plan was to stay at a hotel downtown. Her mother jumped at the chance to have some control over events.

“During prom, the issue of drinking is huge. Do I expect alcohol up there? Yeah. Will some of them drink to excess? Probably,” Samoszewski conceded.

“We’re happy to be there should they need us.”

Bluma Girzon, a Montreal podiatrist whose daughter Rivelle Zlatopolsky is graduating from ECS, a private school for girls in Westmount, says baby boomers can’t help but get in on the action. Some parents at her daughter’s school are prom planning full-time. They’ve rented out private clubs and offered up their summer cottages.

“It’s our generation. We want our kids to have all the things we didn’t have, to do all the things we didn’t do. Since they were little, we hired math tutors and drove to soccer practice,” Girzon observed.

“What makes you think we would stop for prom?”

Lois Cianflone, of Candiac, appreciates how prom has become a family affair in her house.

She and her daughter Julia Lamberti, who is graduating from Heritage Regional High School in St. Hubert, have had a lot of fun dress shopping and shoe hunting. During one “mad dash” to St. Hubert St., mother and daughter stopped for smoked meat and an impromptu brainstorming/bonding session.

“She wanted my opinion,” Cianflone said. “That’s not what usually happens on a shopping trip. Even Julia’s dad was invited to come along when it came time to make the final decision - and the credit card payment.

“She really wanted to know what he thought,” Cianflone recalled. (He liked the dress but nixed the $250 shoes.)

Enza Sasso, a teacher at Queen of Angels Academy, a private girls’ school in Dorval, says some of her Secondary 5 students have been obsessing over prom since they set foot in school last fall. As the school’s prom coordinator, she’s seen long-time friendships ruined and hearts broken in all the negotiations over who sits at which table or who spotted which dress first. Sasso has made it her job to keep a lid on the hysteria, posting information on the bulletin board warning of the dangers of drinking and driving and the risks of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. It’s part of what she calls her pre-prom reality check.

“They put so much pressure on themselves to have the perfect night. They hype it into a fairy tale,” said Sasso. “Nothing could ever live up to those standards.”

She tells them to see prom night as a joyful occasion to share with old friends, to celebrate what they’ve achieved and reflect on how much they’ve grown. It’s not about how much your dress cost or where the gala is held, she tells them.

“They - and sometimes their parents, too - come across as if this were the most important event in their lives,” Sasso said. “What about cegep, university, marriage, having children?

“Yes, prom is exciting. And it’s fun. But important? Not so much in the grand scheme of life.”

- - -

It adds up, all this prom stuff

This is what Samia Liamani estimates her prom will cost:

Dress $300

Shoes $150

Hair $60

Makeup $50

Nails $45

Jewellery and accessories $60

Her share of the

rented double-decker bus $30

Prom ticket $80

After-prom outfit $100

After-prom parties

and outings $60

TOTAL $935

Xer parents make music for the ‘cool kids’

May 14th, 2008 by Pete Markiewicz

Great article on Xer parenting styles. In particular, note that Boomers never really changed their music to communicate with their kids, instead writing long lists of rules for them in child rearing manuals in the 1980s. Xers appear to be adopting a “audio book” style of communicating, keeping a very Xer ‘ironic’ style. But instead of talking about themselves (”I’m a loser, Baby”, Beck) they now sing about how cool their (Millennial) kids are…

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20080514.wkids14/BNStory/Entertainment/home?cid=al_gam_mostview

Making music for the cool kids

Now that its members are all parents, Canada’s most off-beat band joins the parade of musicians making albums for their offspring

From Wednesday’s Globe and Mail

‘Oh, the cat will have to do with eight lives now/ And the Chinese will be out of luck,” Ed Robertson sings on the new Barenaked Ladies album. And why will these terrible things happen, you ask? “Cause 7 ate 9!”

Okay, so it’s a childish joke, but this time it’s wholly justifiable, because the song in question, 789, is the first track on the Ladies’ new children’s album, Snacktime. Available both as a standard CD and as a picture book plus CD, Snacktime is an album aimed at third graders of all ages - but mainly the eight-year-old variety.

Nor are the Ladies the only alt-rock outfit shifting their aim from black-clad cool kids to blackboard school kids. They Might Be Giants, whose pop smarts and off-beat humour presaged the BNL sound, have released three albums of children’s music, including the recent Here Come the 123s. Dan Zanes, who first made a splash singing with the Del Fuegos, now makes his living singing kids songs.

Peter Himmelman, who was once considered Minnesota’s answer to Elvis Costello, was nominated for a Best Children’s Album Grammy this year for his fourth children’s release, My Green Kite. Jason Ringenberg, who in the 1980s led the cow-punk outfit Jason and the Scorchers, now makes kids records as Farmer Jason (as well as fronting concert dates this spring and fall with his former band). And Devo front man Mark Mothersbaugh has not only scored such classics as Rugrats in Paris: The Movie, but also hosts a segment on the children’s show Yo Gabba Gabba!

“Maybe it’s one of those milestones, where after a band puts out so many records they do their ’symphony record.’ Or their ‘children’s record.’ Or their ‘acoustic record.’ You know?” Robertson muses. “For us, there are a lot of reasons, not the least of which that there are 11 children between the five band members now.”

There’s nothing new about rock musicians having children, of course, but the first generations of rock stars kept their family life from spilling over into their recordings. Elvis Presley never cut a special version of Teddy Bear for little Lisa Marie, nor did doting papa Paul McCartney cut an album for his or other people’s kids. And who among us wouldn’t shudder at the thought of a Jimmy Page or Ozzy Osbourne children’s album?

It’s hard to say what made this younger generation of rockers interested in tunes for toddlers. John Flansburg of They Might Be Giants recalls the children’s music of his youth the way some people remember the taste of cod liver oil. “The children’s records I had as a kid were some of the most horrible musical documents I have ever experienced,” he says via e-mail. “It made the arrival of the Beatles just that much more amazing.”

Another factor may be that kids these days tend to have sound systems of their own and are able to listen to what they want, when they want. “Kids are dedicated fans of whatever they’re into at the time, whether that’s the Beatles or Hannah Montana,” Robertson says. “So you know you’re going to hear [their favourites] a lot.

“When my son says, ‘Can you download that Crazy Frog song for me?’ I’m like, ‘Oh, god, please no!’ And I know I’m going to hear it blaring out of his room for 10 days straight. But, in general, my kids are into really cool music. They listen to the Weakerthans and Fountains of Wayne and They Might Be Giants and Green Day and stuff.”

It’s not too surprising that children who grow up listening to their parents’ albums would come to like the same kind of music (at least until they become teens). Likewise, tykes raised on rock would naturally be drawn to music that’s a little more lively than the earnest, folk-based sound propagated by artists such as Raffi or Cathy Fink & Marcy Marxer.

At the same time, it helps if the artists themselves are blessed with a sense of childlike whimsy. That’s certainly the case with Barenaked Ladies, whose hit Pinch Me famously includes the couplet: “I could hide out under there/ I just made you say ‘underwear.’ ”

“Plus we had a record called Born on a Pirate Ship,” Robertson adds.

“I think that’s what made the transition relatively easy for us,” he continues. “We’ve always incorporated humour and irony and a sense of tongue-in-cheek in our music. So it wasn’t an alien place to be. I mean, a U2 kids record would be weirder.” (Although who wouldn’t want to hear Bono belting “In the Name of Mud”?)

In fact, writing songs for Snacktime was strangely liberating. “We’re so used to being scrutinized by the label and management, and worrying what the fans are going to think, and worrying what our peers would think,” Robertson says. “For once, all that mattered to us was that kids would find it entertaining.”

Still, the project did show up an unexpected shortcoming in the band. “There’s an alphabet song on the record, Crazy ABCs, where I look at words that start with letters they don’t sound like they start with, like ‘aisle,’ and ‘bdellium’ and ‘czar,’ ” Robertson says. “We recorded the whole song, and when I was telling my daughter the story of recording it, and she said, ‘What did you do for I?’ And I was like, ‘What did we do for I’?

“Then I realized we didn’t do I. Between the five band members, the producer, the engineer and the band techs, nobody noticed that we skipped a letter of the alphabet.” He quickly found an I word - irk - and wrote a line for it that fit the rhyme scheme, which the band edited into the track the next day. “Everyone was happy, and it wasn’t until I was listening to it on the way home that I realized we put it in the wrong order. We did G-I-H.

“So we determined to leave it. At that point, it was so screwed up that we had to leave it. Plus the rhyme wouldn’t work if it was in the right order.”

The Barenaked Ladies will be performing songs from Snacktime on Kids Canada on Monday, May 19, on CBC-TV.

Bob Herbert: Here Come the Millennials

May 14th, 2008 by Reena Nadler

This reminds me of your arguments in “Millennial Makover,” Mike and Morley.  The generational divide will indeed be interesting to see in an Obama/McCain matchup.

~Reena

Here Come the Millennials

Published: May 13, 2008

An important aspect of the presidential race so far has been the generational divide, with Barack Obama doing very well with younger voters and Hillary Clinton drawing strong support from those who are older. A similar split can be expected in a general election race between Senator Obama and John McCain.

However the election ultimately turns out, the Obama campaign has tapped into a constituency that holds powerful implications for the future of American politics. The youngest of these voters, those ranging in age from roughly the late teens to the early 30s, are part of the so-called millennial generation.

This is a generation that is in danger of being left out of the American dream — the first American generation to do less well economically than their parents. And that economic uncertainty appears to have played a big role in shaping their views of government and politics.

A number of studies, including new ones by the Center for American Progress in Washington and by Demos, a progressive think tank in New York, have shown that Americans in this age group are faced with a variety of challenges that are tougher than those faced by young adults over the past few decades. Among the challenges are worsening job prospects, lower rates of health insurance coverage and higher levels of debt.

We know that the generation immediately preceding the Millennials is struggling. Men who are now in their 30s, the prime age for raising a family, earn less money than members of their fathers’ generation did at the same age. In 1974, the median income for men in their 30s (using today’s inflation-adjusted dollars) was about $40,000. The figure for men in their 30s now is $35,000.

It’s not hard to understand why surveys show that overwhelming percentages of Americans believe the country is on the wrong track. The American dream is on life support. Polls show that dwindling numbers of Americans (in some cases as few as a third of all respondents) believe their children will end up better off than they are.

The upshot of all this is ominous for conservatives. The number of young people in the millennial generation (loosely defined as those born in the 1980s and 90s) is somewhere between 80 million and 95 million. That represents a ton of potential votes — in this election and years to come. And the American Progress study shows that those young people do not feel that they have been treated kindly by conservative policies or principles.

According to the study: “Millennials mostly reject the conservative viewpoint that government is the problem, and that free markets always produce the best results for society. Indeed, Millennials’ views are more progressive than those of other age groups today, and are more progressive than previous generations when they were younger.”

The Demos study pointed to the very difficult employment environment confronting young adults. Fewer jobs offer the benefits of paid vacations, health coverage or pensions. And moving up the employment ladder is much harder.

As the study noted, “The well-paying middle-management jobs that characterized the work force up to the late-1970s have been eviscerated.”

The longer-term outlook is depressing.

Except for the expected continuing demand for registered nurses, the occupations projected to add the most jobs over the next several years do not offer much in the way of pay, benefits or career advancement. Demos listed the top five occupations in terms of anticipated job growth: registered nurses, retail sales, customer service reps, food preparers and office clerks.

Often saddled with debt, and with their job prospects gloomy, young Americans feel their government ought to be doing more to enhance their prospects. They want increased investments in education, health care and initiatives aimed at expanding the economy and fostering the growth of good jobs.

The American Progress study found that Millennials are more likely to support universal health coverage than any other age group over the past 30 years. By huge percentages, they want improvements in health coverage and support for education, even if it means increases in taxes.

The landscape is changing before our eyes. Younger voters struggling with the enormous costs of a college education, or trying to raise families in a bleak employment environment, or using their credit cards to cover everyday expenses like food or energy costs are not much interested in hearing that the government to which they pay taxes can do little or nothing to help them.

Whether young Americans can shift the balance of the presidential election is an open question. But there is very little doubt that over the next several years they are capable of loosening the tremendous grip that conservatives have had on the levers of American power.


After the Boomers, meet the “Baby Losers” - GenX in Europe

May 13th, 2008 by Pete Markiewicz

This article describes mostly GenX young professionals in Europe who find that their training hasn’t given them a good job, and in fact they will earn less than their parents.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/may/11/spain.france

After the boomers, meet the children dubbed ‘baby losers’

Across Spain, France and Italy, young middle-class professionals with good degrees and diplomas are facing a lifetime on low salaries with unrewarding jobs, forever poorer than their parents. Investigation by Graham Keeley in Barcelona, Jason Burke in Paris and Tom Kington in Rome.

About this article

The kids learning to swim at the pool near Via Casilina, in a working-class suburb of Rome, could not ask for better qualified instructors. One is a literature graduate with a masters in communications from Brussels, while another, Antonio di Martino, is an aerospace engineer.

Di Martino, 30, still has to finish his degree, but with a one-year-old baby and another child on the way, and afternoons and evenings working at the pool to bring in €1,100 (£870) a month, something had to give.

‘Some of the pressure to graduate also slipped away when I saw one friend get his degree and then only earn €500 a month at an Italian space firm and another get €800 a month at the European Space Agency,’ said Di Martino, bouncing his son on his knee as his partner, Mattia, rushes out the door to her teaching job, which pays €1,200 a month. ‘My parents bought me my flat, making me one of the lucky ones since prices are crazy and I would never get a mortgage,’ he said. ‘I spent two years of savings on doing up the bathroom and now I worry about my son. One problem, one unforeseen expense and things get serious.’

He said price checking in supermarkets was the norm - ’something my mother never did’. And the family thinks hard before travelling. ‘With petrol and tolls, even a trip to my parents in southern Italy now costs €100.’

Di Martino is part of a new phenomenon sweeping Europe. As he spoke, Africa Garcia Arias, 32, was nearing the end of a 45-hour week in a busy Madrid hospital. Six months pregnant, Arias will scale back her working week in the coming month. But, though she is exhausted, this is hardly much relief. Her salary of €1,600 will drop to €1,000 a month.

On Friday night, Lorenzo, 35, was on a train heading to work a nightshift for a major American sales website’s Berlin branch. He trained as a historian and a photographer. ‘The pay is just about OK - €2,700 a month for a 40-hour week - but it is hardly the job I dreamed of doing,’ he said.

And in Paris, Nathalie, 24, was sitting in a friend’s tiny rented flat in the rundown 20th arrondissement, the poorest district of the city, having finished another month of unpaid ‘work experience’ for a major publishing company. Tomorrow she will be at the second home of her parents in Brittany to sit in the sun in the garden, read and swim. ‘I look at how they live, and how they lived when they were my age or a few years older, and I realise that I will never have any of that,’ she said. ‘I am not sure whether to be angry, sad or simply resigned.’

With inflation soaring, property prices sky high, wages relatively static, labour markets gridlocked and sluggish or slowing economies, Nathalie, Lorenzo, Arias and Di Martino are among tens of millions of Europeans raised to expect that their degrees and diplomas will assure them a relatively high quality of life who are now realising that the world has changed. The disappointment is a shock with big political, social, cultural, even demographic consequences.

‘I am angry. I know a lot of people who are in the same situation and our qualifications are not being rewarded,’ said Arias. For Nathalie, the weekend in her parents’ seaside home will leave ‘a bitter taste in my mouth’.

Freelance architect Emilio Tinoco Vertiz, 32, earns just €1,000 a month. ‘Who needs architects when no one wants to build houses?’ he said. In Spain people such as Emilio are known from their pay as the ‘mileuristas’ (thousand euro-ers). In France they are the ‘babylosers’ - a term coined by sociologist Louis Chauvel to contrast them with ‘babyboomers’. According to Chauvel, 41, a sociologist at the National Foundation for Political Science, for the first time in recent history a generation of French citizens aged between 20 and 40 can expect a lower standard of living than the one before. ‘Mileuristas or babylosers: it’s the same story,’ he said. ‘They have an average of three years more education than their parents, a worse job and a lower standard of living.’

In 1973, only 6 per cent of recent university leavers in France were unemployed; now the rate is 25 to 30 per cent; salaries have stagnated for 20 years while property prices have doubled or trebled, though the overall proportion of French people living in poverty has not changed. Whereas in the 1960s the poor were mainly the old, now they are the young; in 1970, salaries for 50-year-olds were only 15 per cent higher than those for workers of 30; the gap now is 40 per cent.

‘Some talk of a war between the generations, but that’s a little simplistic. It is more that the system means that the haves are keeping what they have and no one is helping the have-nots,’ said Chauvel. ‘The big determinant in France now of success is not your educational level but the wealth of your parents, if they can support you during your twenties as you fight your way into a closed employment market.’

French economists speak of ‘insiders and outsiders’. The insiders are those who already have a job and are well-defended by the battery of French laws protecting the workforce and the unions. The outsiders are those without work which, naturally, include newcomers on the job market. Chauvel says the problem is particularly bad in Latin countries where parents are expected to support their children much longer.

In Spain, even during the boom years when growth outstripped the rest of the European Union, the ‘mileuristas’ found themselves unable to afford their own homes. But now with the Spanish economy crashing, prospects are grim. In the first three months of 2008, Spanish unemployment hit 9.6 per cent, the highest for three years and second only to Slovakia in the 27-nation EU.

Once one of Europe’s success stories, Spain’s Socialist government has been forced to cut its 2008 growth estimate to 2.3 per cent from 3.1 per cent. Josep Comajuncosa, a macro-economics specialist at the Esade business school in Barcelona, said the downturn may help the ‘mileuristas’ buy homes but it will not solve their basic problem. ‘What is needed is a model of growth based on greater productivity and new industries primarily service-based such as IT, financial services and new technology which can raise salaries,’ he said.

In an effort to save Spain from the worst effects of the downturn, the government has announced an ambitious public works programme, including a massive social housing plan that could help many to finally buy property. Such policies are likely to become common.

In Germany, according to a report published by consultancy McKinsey, those earning between 70 and 150 per cent of the average income - the standard definition of the middle class - will make up less than half the population by 2020, against 54 per cent today.

Only eight years ago, 62 per cent of Germans were in the middle-class bracket, according to a second study. Key markers of middle-class status - such as overseas holidays - are disappearing or becoming blurred. ‘I haven’t been away for two years,’ said Aurel Thurn, 38, who works for an art gallery in Berlin and has top-level qualifications, 10 years’ experience and speaks four languages fluently. ‘I have enough money for my rent, my telephone and food. But that’s it.’

Many feel that Germany’s middle class has not benefited from the nation’s recent economic recovery. The result has been political pressure, with trade union activism and a wave of industrial action aimed at securing higher wages and enhanced benefits as well as lower taxes for average earners and higher taxes on the rich. Germany’s political parties have reacted by boosting public spending and are considering wide tax cuts.

‘There is a political swing towards what were once considered the ideas of the political left such as minimum wages, benefits and so on,’ said Holgar Schaefer, labour economist at the Cologne Institute of Economics. ‘It is a tendency that is only likely to become more obvious in coming years.’

The same thing is happening elsewhere. In France, there has been a mass mobilisation of teachers and pupils against plans to slash staffing levels. ‘It is completely unprecedented,’ said author and journalist Ariane Chemin.

‘There is a potentially explosive combination of political disillusion with a fascination for politics. Young people are both deeply cynical and deeply politicised. They are at the school gates calling teachers who work “scabs”. We haven’t seen anything like it for years.’

But it may be that, instead of the demise of the European class, we are merely witnessing its evolution. Daniel Gros, of the Centre for European Policy Studies in Brussels, said the middle classes across Europe were ’splintering’. ‘The homogeneous middle class that you once had based on industry and a protected government sector is disappearing,’ he said.

The political and social consequences are already visible. The success of Nicolas Sarkozy is one, according to Gros. ‘The old massive blocs of Gaullist right and Socialist left based on clear understandings of what it is to be working class and socialist have broken down,’ he said. ‘Sarkozy’s appeal cut across those classic divisions.’

Analysts also point out that the ‘hardship’ of the middle classes is relative - according to the European Commission, there are an estimated 16 million people in the EU at risk of poverty. ‘The decline in standards of living for young middle class people is pretty moderate when compared with the very dramatic situation of their counterparts in totally marginalised communities such as the poor French suburbs,’ said Professor Ian Begg of the London School of Economics.

‘And it is an extremely varied picture. New service sector jobs can be low grade and badly paid - such as night shifts for an IT company - or very lucrative. Collectively, Europe is richer than it has ever been. Average income has been going up pretty well without a blip since 1945 and whatever the disparities some of that has filtered down to pretty much everybody.’

Begg pointed out that, with economic and social changes, a certain amount of ‘blurring’ was inevitable. ‘There is a trend towards a certain classlessness and some win and some lose. Jobs that were previously passports to stable middle-class incomes and wealth no longer are. And those who lose out most tend to shout loudest.’

Boomers’ on personal athletic journeys?

May 12th, 2008 by Reena Nadler

I ran a (short) triathlon last year and was surprised by how many Boomers there were.  The early 20s age brackets were almost empty, but the over 45 brackets were overflowing.  I think Millennials more drawn to team sports, while Boomers are energized by the personal challenge and “Journey” of an individual competition.

May 10, 2008

Never too old to stay fit

67-year-old woman trains for triathlons


DELAND — Donning a red, rubber swim cap, Beverly Turner heads out of her lakefront home and into Lake Charles for her .36-mile swim.With steady, incessant strokes, Turner and her two friends swim across the lake and back.

“Wow, that was great. I got to make my swim without cramping today,” she says, back ashore.

Turner is 67 and training for the Danskin Triathlon on Sunday at Walt Disney World. She wants to be in the best shape she can to swim a quarter mile, bicycle nine miles and run two miles.

It’s unusual to see women of Turner’s age competing in triathlons, and Turner is sometimes the only participant in her age group, said Kathy Schwerdfeger, a YMCA trainer and Turner’s coach.

But that’s beginning to change as more baby boomers move into their later years with the desire to remain active and competitive.

Triathlons, in particular, are growing in popularity as boomers “realize that it is a good way to stay fit and a good way to cross-train,” Schwerdfeger says. “And they are realizing that it is a lot of fun doing it.”

Before beginning any demanding sport, older people are cautioned to consult doctors to make sure their bodies can endure the rigors.

Turner is in such good shape she only needs reminders to stay hydrated, Schwerdfeger says.

Turner, a retired pharmacist, shows off at least 10 medals and has participated in at least six triathlons every year since her first, the 2003 Danskin. She competes mainly to have fun, she says. With so few entrants in the 65-to-69 age group, she jokes she often finishes “first and last.”

When friends Schwerdfeger and Lisa Hildebrand, both in their late 40s, discussed trying the Danskin Triathlon for the first time in 2002, Turner decided she wanted to try it as well.

“I had seen her doing aerobic classes at the Y, so I didn’t think she would have problems,” Schwerdfeger says.

Turner has competed in 17 of the 21 triathlons Schwerdfeger has entered.

“For Bev, the whole point is participating rather than sitting on the sidelines,” Schwerdfeger says.

Turner says she enjoyed athletics in her youth and after she retired, tried to stay busy with aerobics, salsa dancing, tennis and golfing. But those didn’t hold her interest.

“I was just a tomboy who loved playing with the boys,” Turner says. “Anything that was not a challenge became boring.”

After their first couple of triathlons, the women realized the necessity of training, Turner says.

“We decided to get bicycles in the second year and practice. Everybody was just killing us in the bicycle event.”

Now, Turner prepares by training six days a week, allotting three days each for swimming, running and bicycling.

Her drive is rubbing off on Denise Metts, 36, who is entering her first Danskin event.

“Everybody kept talking about Bev. I said to myself, ‘I’ve gotta meet this Bev,’ ” Metts says. “We are doing hill running, and Bev doesn’t stop.”

Obama’s Generation

May 7th, 2008 by David Bernstein

Forgive me if this has been addressed, but I’m way behind on my forum reading…

I was discussing with a friend yesterday the generational improbability of Obama winning the nomination, thus setting up and X v. Silent matchup in the Fall. In light of this, I’m wondering, Neil, if you’ve thought about adjusting the birth years for boomers and Xers — right now,  Obama’s a cusper (1961). Perhaps he’s better categorized as a Boomer?

I realize he doesn’t fit the Boomer profile of a pure culture warrior; but on the other hand he doesn’t fit the can-do, no BS vision that we’d expect from a true Xer.

What do y’all think?